Father's Day at Honeycutt Park

Father's Day weekend finds us on the road for a quick trip down to Fayetteville to visit Gram and company. We were originally shooting for Mazarick Park near Bragg Boulevard but apparently the rest of Fayetteville had the same idea. So we went a little further down the road to Honeycutt Park which has definitely grown in the long years since I lived in Fayetteville.

Now there is a pair of big jungle gyms and a community center and some big baseball diamonds complete with announcer's booths. What I remember was a few small playground items and the old ceramics hut that's now behind the big community center. Those jungle gyms are really cool and Nicholas had a blast leading whoever was chasing him on a merry dash through the various obstacles.

After a ton of fun hanging out in the park (and trying to keep up with Nicholas), it was time for dinner. Originally, we were going to bring in some bird but decided on Mi Casita east of town instead. Ole! And Nicholas decided to show how much he enjoyed dinner by conveniently falling asleep on the way home... :)

When doing the test drive, note the most important features...

It's become obvious for a while that we were going to need to upgrade the trusty ol' family hauler for quite a while so today's fun included doing some test drives of candidate vehicle. (Eagle-eyed readers will probably deduce that this revelation came during the trip to Washington for Alexander's surgery...you know the one where we're counting four seats in the Escape to seat five people. Thanks for the assist, Gramps!).

Test drives are fun...you know, the sort of fun where you're hauling two car seats into a minivan in weather conditions that could be described as VFR (visual flight rules) and hotter than {insert name of hot and unpleasant underworld here!}. Depending on the model you're testing, you can even have the added bonus of mooning the entire showroom (I'd like to toss out a mea culpa to those customers at the Honda dealer in North Raleigh).

Of course, when testing minivans with the drop-down DVD screen, you need some test fodder if you don't want to be stuck with 1,001 Uses for a Minivan promo material. So we slipped a copy of Bob the Builder into the diaper bag to keep Nicholas happy whilst we meandered about the greater metropolitan Raleigh area.

First up was a Honda and well, I've already apologised to their customers once. It was surprising that the Odyssey would essentially rule itself out of contention so easily and it wasn't just because my panoramic posterior makes it a lot harder to install Nicholas' car seat into the third row. We were quite surprised to find that there just weren't a whole lot of LATCH (anchor/tether) positions in the third row. The only one would could find was on the 60 part of the 60/40 split bench and there wasn't one on the middle seat in the second row in the eight-passenger configuration. Given that it's not uncommon for us to move five passengers (two of which are in big car seats), that would effectively rule out dropping the entire third row into the wheel well to create cargo space.

So now it's time to visit Toyota and see what their eight-passenger Sienna has to say for itself. We were pleasantly surprised to find LATCH anchors for all three seats in the middle row and three positions in the 60/40 bench in the third row (including one that is only on the 40 portion of the bench). And the second row is comfortable enough for the five of us to go where we need to go and still have a ton of cargo room when the third row folds into the floor. This particular Sienna had the oversized DVD screen...nope, we'll take the regular-sized screen because it's just not fun trying to use the rear-view mirror when that big monstrosity blocks the view! Meanwhile, Nicholas is happily enjoying his DVD (we didn't have any sound but he didn't seem to care).

So we finish driving and are duly impressed by the Sienna (and fortunately the second row seat can be flipped forward to prevent any unwanted and unintended reasons to hear Carolina Moon Keep Shinin') but now it's time to head over to Triangle Towne Centre to let Nicholas run off some energy and get some dinner. He actually falls asleep on the way home.

The next day, we're heading out to visit A Southern Season with Grammy and let her get a feel for the Sienna and you just had to know what the first question out of Nicholas' mouth was going to be as he was being strapped into his car seat.

Bob?!?

The look on his face was priceless...he was looking up where the DVD screen was in the Sienna expecting that the Escape would magically get one there as well...and was somewhat confused that he didn't see the DVD player there! We couldn't help but laugh at just how clever a boy he was...and be sure that when it's time to go get the Sienna, it's definitely going to have that drop-down DVD player. I don't think the boy would ever let us forget the most important feature...at least according to him! :)

Christening the Throne!

Our big boy just keeps on growing day-by-day and he never stops amazing us. Today was a special day filled with fanfare (no, really!) when Nicholas went pee pee in the potty for the first time.

And this is no ordinary potty! No, technology has marched on from the stark and utilitarian commodes we learned this vital skill upon to come up with a super-deluxe model that actually looks like a king's throne and whenever sensors detect something moving at the opening, a bit of musical fanfare is provided.

Well, the fanfare bit is quite overrated and after five minutes gets really tedious, particularly when little boys have the ability to set it off multiple times just by the nature of things, if you get my drift.

But, design deficiencies of the porti-toilet aside, going potty for the first time is remarkable...and the going rate for this trick is a brand new car.

Wait...let me try that again.

BOB BARKER: Nicholas, come right up here to center stage...we have a piddling game for you. And when you play it correctly, you can win this fabulous prize. Tell them what he's playing for, Rod...
ROD RODDY (loudly): A BRAND NEW CAR!!! Yes, this four-door beauty has all leather interior, automatic transmission, and California emissions. And it can be yours, if the PEE IS RIGHT!

(OK, you're on your own imagining the pretty girls in bikinis waving in the general direction of the car! :)

But seriously, this is an important developmental step and there will be plenty of stops and starts before we really make the connection between this really funny feeling and needing to have a seat to do ol' #1 or #2 (or both). So we'll forgive you in advance if you don't quite make it to the potty in time and try to remember that it wasn't as easy for us to learn as we're trying to tell you it is now. But I have no doubts we'll be taking target practice in the toilet soon enough...kindly remember that if you sprinkle when you tinkle, please be neat and wipe the seat! ;)-

Sesame Street Live

Nicholas and Elmo have been pals for quite a while. You get used to Elmo's World and Elmo's conversations with Dorothy and Mr Noodle and various and sundry things in his virtual house. And Nicholas really enjoys visiting that world every now and then.

That's why he was a bit surprised when his first trip to the RBC Centre (well, at least on the outside!) was to watch Sesame Street Live. I'm sure that's going to make the inevitable conversation about how TV is not real a little tougher down the road.

But, we saw Elmo and he was REAL...

They did a good job with this show...you couldn't help but be sucked into a real Sesame Street episode. And they definitely knew the target audience with a quick intermission through the show for the best chance of keeping short attention spans focused on the show. Nicholas was definitely in the zone...so much so that when he was asked at the intermission where the characters went, he spent the entire intermission shrugging his shoulders and asking where did they go?

The storyline revolved round two aliens who land on Earth and their spaceship is subsequently disabled. There are several attempts to repair the ship that don't quite work out so well...but unlike the average dealership garage, they at least learned a bit more about the diverse cultures that share this planet. Most of the time waiting for repairs at garage, one is fighting desperately to get oxygen to one's brain. All-in-all, an entertaining show and one that thoroughly delighted Nicholas (even Alexander was enjoying all of the pretty colors and lights...when he wasn't taking a bottle or sleeping, that is!).

Of course, the ship eventually gets fixed (after at least six attempts) and they fly off to outer space. But if you use your imagination a bit, you just might see them out there if you look close enough...