Rants, musings, and other general purpose blog entries reflecting the thoughts du jour.
Well, that bit of joy at having a pair of electronically tax returns accepted by the IRS computers was rather short-lived... :( I suppose there's a first time for everything! Digging a little deeper, this is the reason why NC DOR let that particular corporate tax return escape the ecto containment system and come back to haunt me: And that's where the story gets really interesting...if you're a tax nerd, that is! Like the individual…
Even when you've been preparing tax returns for what seems forever but in reality is almost my entire life (!), there is still that moment of anxiety when you've pushed the button to electronically file a client's tax return where you're wondering if you've forgotten something that's going to cause it to be rejected by the IRS or Department of Revenue. It happens to us all, even those of us compulsive types who reviewed the…
Nothing's the same anymore. Commander Sinclair --- "Chrysalis" --- Babylon 5 Three household goods lorries positively stuffed to the ceilings and it's now time to start the early morning procession to Miguel and Jessica's new home in Wendell for his Permanent Change of Station (PCS). It's been a whirlwind of frenetic activity these past few days to finish the packing and loading and we're literally in the home stretch with the hopes of getting finishing…
One thing you learn after you've moved round a fair bit is that the day of packing and loading the household goods into the lorries is an exercise in patience amongst the chaos. The best defence against letting the moving process get to you is to latch onto any opportunity for humour. Who knew it'd be not terribly long after I wandered next door to help schlep the neighbour's stuff onto the first of what…
I believe that when we leave a place, part of it goes with us and part of us remains. Go anywhere in the station when it is quiet, and just listen. After a while, you will hear the echoes of all our conversations, every thought and word we've exchanged. Long after we are gone, our voices will linger in these walls for as long as this place remains. But I will admit that the part…
It’s not where you start but where you finish that counts. Zig Ziglar Of all of the things I have to be thankful for this tumultuous year we've had in 2023, finally making it to this last day of the year in a much better place than I was a couple of weeks ago is probably one of the most meaningful. It most certainly didn't come easy but then nothing in this life worth experiencing…
Understatement (n): a statement that describes something in a way that makes it seem less important, serious, bad, etc. than it really is, or the act of making such statements. Cambridge Dictionary These past couple of days, it's been a real struggle trying to find the theme for this year's story marking the eighth anniversary of getting the phone call I really could have done without for a few more years. And *THAT* would be…
Today I got the news that I'm sure is totally going to shock zero of my dear readers...the Traverse failed in her attempt to thwart the debugging process and the brand-new transmission that failed downtown will be replaced by an even newer transmission that will hopefully last more than three days! At least it's under warranty which means the new transmission and labour are covered which is a good thing because that bill was already…
As I was at the house waiting to head out to Enloe to collect Katie and Alex, the doorbell rang quite unexpectedly. In a manner of confession after the week I'd had up to that point which involved a brand new transmission refusing to transmit torque properly and a bait-and-switch for a hire car and a looming date that is just the cherry on the top of the calendar year, I really wasn't in the…
After getting the update from my oldest where he was on his journey back from playing outdoor hockey in downtown Charlotte (which was his first true long-haul solo journey and I do believe he rather enjoyed the experience), the garage rang me up to give me the latest news on the Traverse. Well, what the kind gentleman said first was to reassure me that they were actively trying to diagnose the problem and that they…
After a weekend of having the Traverse back home where she belongs with a brand new transmission (and a new serpentine belt and oxygen sensor aft of the catalytic converter) and not doing anything particularly exciting to the transmission to test what passes for my luck, today's mission of stopping by Sam Jones BBQ and then Sam's Club after dropping Katie off at school seemed simple enough. I should have known everything was going to…
The very nasty weather predicted for today got to be a bit more exciting than we planned when the phone started going nuts with the raucous emergency alert sound indicating that a tornado warning had been issued for our area. One of the nice things about no longer using the satellite dish is that the signal is no longer susceptible to rain fade so over to WRAL we go to see Mike Maze doing the…
Oh, Carl! One could dare to dream but your estimate is off by an order of magnitude! Well, the estimate of what the bill is likely to come to but the estimate of what will be left over is depressingly much closer to the reality of it. I just got the lovely news from the garage that the Traverse's transmission decided it has had enough of converting torques and moving the rest of that SUV…
Hands down, one of my favourite stand-up comedians is Gabriel Iglesias who is better known by his nickname "Fluffy" which is where he ranked himself on his "Six Levels of Fatness": Big Healthy Husky Fluffy DAMN! OH HELL NO! All it takes is one picture and I think you can see where he and I would have a very definite thing in common. (I was talking about a mutual love of food fool! What did…
Did you ever have a conversation with someone that you were absolutely certain as to which way that conversation would go and how it would end? As in no doubts whatsover! And then it goes in a completely different direction than you had imagined possible? Yeah, me too! :) This tale actually started a couple of weeks earlier when I started noticing some hesitation in the Traverse whenever I'd put my foot down. After considering…
Over the past week, it had become increasingly clear that Prime Minister Rishi Sunak was going to do what pretty much every minister in Whitehall fears and is one of the main reason to actually be Prime Minister: the cabinet reshuffle. This political game of musical chairs is often instigated by the Cabinet Secretary (a career civil servant and generally the Head of the Home Civil Service which makes them arguably the most powerful person…
I've been thinking long and hard all day about what I wanted to write about for Veteran's Day. As I was running a couple of backups after the hard drive recovery operations earlier this week, I happened to stumble upon this picture that came from a set of slides that my father had taken whilst he was serving in his first of two deployments to Vietnam in 1967. Local man (VC?) Works for himself during…
Today in the House of Lords, His Majesty the King has given the first King's Most Gracious Speech in over 70 years since the passing of his mother The Queen last year. It is not the first time he's given the speech as he stood in for HM The Queen in the previous State Opening in May 2022. This speech is given during the State Opening of Parliament which is the only regular event that…
Three weeks after Matt Gaetz of Florida pushed a one-person motion to vacate the chair and dump Kevin McCarthy out of the big chair at the top of the rostrum in the House of Representatives...the Republicans have managed to find a new fanny to sit in the seat second in line from the Presidency. I'm sure the most relieved person in the room has to be Patrick McHenry of North Carolina who no longer has…
Just when you think you've truly seen it all...along comes something that just defies all imagination that you'd have witnessed it. As I was waiting in Julia's office car park to transfer Alex and the two puppies, I heard a huge crashing sound to my left toward the GoRaleigh bus stop. There's this guy in a high-visibility yellow jacket walking away from the US Postal Service collection box he'd just did a Hong Kong Phooey…
Listen all! This is the truth of it. Fighting leads to killing, and killing gets to warring. And that was damn near the death of us all. Look at us now! Busted up, and everyone talking about hard rain! But we've learned, by the dust of them all… Bartertown learned. Now, when men get to fighting, it happens here! And it finishes here! Two men enter; one man leaves. Dr Dealgood --- "Mad Max: Beyond…
The motion to table (procedurally kill) Matt Gaetz’s motion to vacate the chair (vote Speaker McCarthy off his island at the top of the well of the House) just went down in flames. Now we’re on to the main event and if the vote totals on the tabling motion hold, McCarthy will be the first Speaker in history to be put to the parliamentary sword. Minority Leader Jeffries effectively gave the Democratic Caucus response with…
Ever since the leader of the notorious mercenary group "Wagner" led a brief insurrection and marched his forces from the Ukraine through Rostov-on-Don and within 200 km of Moscow, it was only a matter of time before Yevgeny Prigozhin would be made to answer for daring to challenge the authority of President Vladimir Putin. If the reporting by Reuters, the BBC, and now everyone else picking up on the story is correct...it appears that one…
And the irony is that it's been slightly more of a while as I just got distracted with dashing off a novella for a friend who has many photos that she'd like converted to digital and offering my opinions on what someone looking at outsourcing photo scanning might want to consider. Don't worry, I'll capture the guts of that and clean it up for a post in the "Photography Tips" section as soon as I…
I've had more than a little time to reflect upon what family means to me ever since that fateful Friday night almost three weeks ago and the many nights and days of many thoughts but much rarer instances of peace and solace that have followed since the ambulance pulled away from our little cul-de-sac at the end of our street. Truth be told, it seems absurd that what seemed absolutely crystal clear in my mind…
